Get your POP out of my COUNTRY!!!
Im not saying Taylor Swift is a poor singer, im just gonna say that she is a pop singer, not a country singer. I belive the best country song had something to do with mama, trains, rain, prison, beer and trucks. In a world of Rap and hip hop, pop singers seem to think that they can slap a Country music on it and get record sells. I saw a youtube video, taylor was saying to here guitar player (The one with the weird hair, no offense) Why am I a country artist, as she was putting her songs to hip hop beats. Im sorry but if you say something like that your not country, no matter how many horse you have ridden, or how much barley youve bucked. You would never here George Straight say "Why am a country artist" songs like Sugarland's Stuke like Glue, and You belong with me are not country. Sorry Taylor, your great at writing pop love songs, but thats about it, get out of my COUNTRY MUSIC
Love and Lack of
Puppy dog, first love: This is usually caused by people being in love with the thought of love, and to my knowlage has never lasted for anyone. Sadly hearts can easilly be broken when one realizes they are not in love with the person they met.
Obsessive love: This is usually caused by one person being obsessed with someone in their life thinking they need them to fill a hole that is in their heart, caused be non existant parents or Family members. This is not healthy, I would know as I have recieved it from someone who was seriously opssesed with me, their heart was sadly brokken when they found out it was not going to work.
Using, Abusing, Est.: This is someone acting like they love you to get something, sex, money drugs Est, Men and Women do this equally.
True love: True love is the Idea that you find someone that compleates your world and that you can have a healthy relationship with, Love is not enough as many married couples know, its a give and take process (not one person giving and one taking) , finding comprimise, and so on.
Depression
Somtimes you can't stop whats on the inside, when you can't feal anything but sorrow, you try to out run the pain, you look for new love to forget the last one, you go crazy, creating a fake person to hide the one that was destroyed, whenever you talk to somone about it they say take little baby steps, like its such an easy thing to do, they don't realize how hard it can be.
If you have ever had this problem you know how hard it can be, and just reading this can make the fealings come back.
I am not saying to do this but if, you can, try and realize how much stronger this has made you, how you are better off now than you were then, if you can't though, I understand all to well; in that case just try to enjoy the small amounts of love in your life, the human moments when it seems the world has changed, and most of all remember when life was good, remember that you have people around you, even though you may not realize it thay are there for you, and remember all the good you have done fo others.
Just take one step at a time, even if it takes a whole month or year to take that one step, just take one, don't run and crash.